Selamat hari jumaat!!
this entry was written long time ago..tp aku mmg nk ckp beza menerima kelemahan dan memperbaikinya.
Manusia mmg ada personality kan .most of the time,aku rasa it is nurtured since childhood, ur up bringing .ni aku ckp in general.
Ada few personalities that i cant tolerate.so do you,u sure have few traits yg u tak suka kt org kan..
i believe,that everyone can change..accepting flaws are not equal to allowing rudeness.
A person told me when she knew that I am having friction with my c*********.
Aqilah,u have to accept people.She memang like that.
And at the same time,i passed through a room and overheard some conversation.
A person said something..bla..bla..bla:People have to accept me!!!
All above conversations made me think..siapa yg difficult sebenarnya,aku yg susah nak terima kekurangan orang atau org lain yg taknak berubah.
Kita semua ada personality .mcm mana kita nak ubah diri kita jadi likeable and ada prinsip that wont be affected by surroundings.
Bukan senang.Being likeable is very subjective kan sebenarnya..ada org suka org sebab lenient and probably berat dekat kita..
Being infamous strict pun tak guna jugak sebab it will be difficult for other people to deal with you
So,akhirnya,berbalik dekat hadis nabi yang ajar kita supaya memudahkan urusan seorang muslim yang lain.
Dari dulu lagi aku rasa kalau kita tak susahkan org..kita pun will be at ease.
How can we fall asleep at night,knowing that we make someone's life difficult..Aku tkleh bayangkan.Forgive me,kalau aku pernah buat mcm tu dkt org..
I will try not to.
And ....it is not easy if u re different because of ur personality..contoh,org dari cari jalan dkt dgn Tuhan.. tiba2 patah balik pergi buat benda yg tak baik..
bukan senang utk kita tetapkan hati dan berubah..
senang cerita contoh mcm aku yg konon nak diet..tp suam2 kuku je ..
sama je jgk ubah habit kan..
we,as a people who wants to prepare for life hereafter..need to do our best to change towards kindness.
start small,later it will be bigger.
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